Understanding Your Options

Most of us plan ahead in life. We plan for our wedding, our children's education, family vacations, and other significant expected life events. We also plan for the unexpected events of life by purchasing home, auto and medical insurance.

Understanding the benefits of pre-planning has prompted many to take the step to plan their own arrangements.

In Person: Please call us at 718-778-2121 to set up an appointment to discuss pre-planning with a caring professional.

Online Planner: Our Online Planner is designed specifically to provide you with an alternative way of considering funeral arrangements at your time of need.

Personalization Options

We believe that every funeral or memorial service should be as unique as the life it celebrates. We offer numerous ways to personalize services to reflect the personality, interests, and achievements of your loved one.

Music & Media

  • Favorite songs and musical selections
  • Custom playlists
  • Live musicians or vocalists
  • Video tributes and photo slideshows

Readings & Tributes

  • Meaningful poems and readings
  • Religious or spiritual texts
  • Eulogies and personal tributes
  • Shared memories from family and friends

Visual Elements

  • Photo displays and memory boards
  • Memory tables with personal items
  • Custom printed materials
  • Themed décor reflecting interests

Participation

  • Candle lighting ceremonies
  • Memory sharing opportunities
  • Balloon or dove releases
  • Interactive memorial activities

Special Recognition

  • Military honors for veterans
  • Fraternal or organizational tributes
  • Cultural and religious customs
  • Professional or career acknowledgments

Keepsakes & Mementos

  • Memorial cards and bookmarks
  • Customized memorial items
  • Fingerprint jewelry
  • Memorial seed packets or plantings

Frequently Asked Questions

Here are answers to some common questions about funeral and cremation options. If you have additional questions, please don't hesitate to contact us.

The main difference is that a funeral service typically has the body present, while a memorial service does not. Funeral services are usually held within a few days after death, while memorial services can be held weeks or even months later, providing more flexibility for planning and attendance.

Yes, you can have a viewing or visitation before cremation. This option allows family and friends to pay their respects and say goodbye. We can arrange for a casket rental for the viewing if you prefer not to purchase a casket.

There are many options for cremated remains, including:

  • Placement in a columbarium niche at a cemetery
  • Burial in a cemetery plot
  • Scattering in a meaningful location (subject to local regulations)
  • Keeping in an urn at home
  • Division among family members in keepsake urns
  • Incorporation into memorial jewelry or other keepsakes

There are countless ways to personalize a service, including:

  • Selecting meaningful music, readings, and prayers
  • Creating photo displays or video tributes
  • Incorporating hobbies, interests, or achievements into the service
  • Having family and friends share memories
  • Using personal items for display
  • Choosing specific flowers or colors
  • Creating custom printed materials

Our staff can help you explore personalization options that reflect your loved one's unique life.

Pre-planning offers several benefits:

  • Ensures your wishes are known and followed
  • Relieves your family of making difficult decisions during a time of grief
  • Allows you to make thoughtful, unhurried choices
  • Provides an opportunity to discuss your preferences with loved ones
  • Can lock in current prices if you choose to pre-fund your arrangements
  • Gives you and your family peace of mind