Express Your Sympathy with Flowers

Flowers have long been a traditional way to express sympathy and support during times of loss.

At A. Barrett Funeral Services, we understand the importance of beautiful floral arrangements in honoring the memory of your loved one. We work closely with trusted local florists who understand the significance of funeral flowers and can create arrangements that reflect the personality and preferences of the deceased.

Funeral Flower Etiquette

Understanding funeral flower traditions and etiquette can help you make appropriate choices during a difficult time.

Who Sends What?

  • Immediate Family: Casket sprays, casket covers, or interior casket pieces are typically arranged by the closest family members.
  • Extended Family: Standing sprays, large arrangements, or special tribute pieces (hearts, crosses) are often sent by extended family members.
  • Friends and Colleagues: Smaller arrangements, baskets, or plants are appropriate for friends, colleagues, and acquaintances to send.
  • Groups or Organizations: Standing sprays or wreaths are often sent by organizations, clubs, or business associates.

When to Send Flowers

Funeral flowers can be sent at different times:

  • To the Funeral Home: Arrangements should arrive before the first visitation or service.
  • To the Church: Flowers should arrive at least one hour before the service.
  • To the Family's Home: Arrangements can be sent to the family's home before or after the service.
  • After the Funeral: Sending flowers a week or two after the funeral can be a thoughtful reminder that you're still thinking of the family.

Cultural and Religious Considerations

Different cultures and religions have varying traditions regarding funeral flowers:

  • Christian: Most Christian denominations welcome flowers at funerals.
  • Jewish: Flowers are not traditionally part of Jewish funeral customs. Consider making a charitable donation instead.
  • Muslim: Simple arrangements are appropriate, but check with the family as practices vary.
  • Buddhist: White flowers are traditional, symbolizing grief.
  • Hindu: Garlands and loose flowers are often preferred over arrangements.

When in doubt, it's always appropriate to ask the family or funeral director about their preferences.

Card Messages

A thoughtful message can provide comfort. Here are some appropriate sentiments for sympathy cards:

  • "With deepest sympathy and loving memories."
  • "Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time."
  • "May these flowers express what words cannot."
  • "Remembering [Name] and the light they brought to our lives."
  • "Sending love and strength to you and your family."

Alternative Tributes

In addition to or instead of flowers, you might consider these meaningful tributes:

Charitable Donations

Consider making a donation to a cause that was important to the deceased. Many families include "in lieu of flowers" information in obituaries.

Memorial Trees or Plants

A living memorial such as a tree or garden plant can provide ongoing comfort and a lasting tribute to your loved one's memory.

Food and Meal Delivery

Providing meals for the family in the days following a loss can be a practical and appreciated gesture of support.

Need Assistance with Flower Arrangements?

Our staff can help coordinate flower deliveries and provide guidance on appropriate arrangements. Contact us or Brooklyn Blooms Florist directly for assistance.